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| Two aunts on the left, Grandmother on the right |
I have a reputation for being late but outdid myself this time. How does one nonchalantly walk into a room of mostly strangers, and hope it’s not obvious that I don’t have it all together? That I had told Google Maps to find the shortest distance route not the shortest time? I hoped a lot of people would be standing around talking, and I could slip in the back unnoticed.
No
such luck. This was a small reception. We walked in at the front of the room with
everyone sitting down, all eyes on us, and Dayton’s aunt jumped up and said, “Oh, you made it.” Very
embarrassing. Kindness all around. Nobody blunt enough to say, “You nincompoop.
Who would be stupid enough to almost miss what you drove 350 miles for?”
I’d
originally declined the invitation. Between a wedding, vacation, and house
projects, we’ve had a busy summer. But I had to drive to LaCrosse
so decided the extra 150 miles were worth it to get to know Dayton’s family better.
So how did I, someone who's been driving for 38 years, make a mistake of such epic proportions? For starters, not giving trip planning serious thought. I
had to be in Aplington, Iowa, by 6:30
Friday night. I’d driven through
Aplington 15 years ago so vaguely knew its location. Iowa is mostly laid out in a mile grid so if you know the
general direction, you’ll get there sooner or later.
Later,
as in my case.
Since
another daughter had our GPS, I googled directions on my iPad. Google maps estimated
a six and a half hour travel time. Lani and I left Northern Wisconsin at 10 a.m., thinking we had wiggle room.
We
headed south, relaxed and looking forward to shopping and eating our way down
to Aplington. We were taking our old dishwasher to Kiah and Dayton, which unfortunately filled up the back of my small Pontiac Vibe and almost completely blocked my rear view. When I needed to back up, Lani had to get out of the car to give me back up signals.
Lani had stayed up to 3 a.m. the night before so planned to sleep in the car. However, I needed a
navigator and being the only passenger, she was it. She sighed, picked up the
iPad, and told me where to turn.
Beautiful
day, good company, pretty scenery. After stopping at a bakery and thrift store,
I noticed the time and realized we had used up our margin and shouldn’t make
further unnecessary stops.
Google Maps listed two options: Duluth, then south on I-35 most of the way. (Boring and monotonous) or US-63 diagonally through Western Wisconsin (very pretty). Being my father's daughter, I chose the scenic route.
Three
hours into the trip, Lani accidentally lost the iPad directions. Without
internet, I couldn’t get them back. We found a McDonalds and sat in their parking lot to use
their free Wi-fi to pull up the map again.
We
continued south and I suggested Lani screenshot the directions in case she
accidentally lost the screen again, we’d still have them. Lani looked over
with a sheepish grin and said, “Too late.” Seriously? She had lost the
directions twice in twenty minutes. Sigh.
Tired of listening umpteen times to Lani's Viva la Vida CD by Coldplay, I found an oldies radio station while driving through Lake City, Minnesota. I was transported back to high school when I was young and didn't have the responsibility or pressure of timing road trips.
I generously provided Lani with useful bits of information. "These are the Beach Boys. They're an American classic. It's important to know who they are. This is Journey, the same group that sings "Don't Stop Believing." The Eagles song, "Best of My Love" always made me sad. Yes, I know this sounds like a woman singing, but the Bee Gees are three brothers. After an hour, Lani was tired of music history lessons and popped the Coldplay CD back in.
Tired of listening umpteen times to Lani's Viva la Vida CD by Coldplay, I found an oldies radio station while driving through Lake City, Minnesota. I was transported back to high school when I was young and didn't have the responsibility or pressure of timing road trips.
I generously provided Lani with useful bits of information. "These are the Beach Boys. They're an American classic. It's important to know who they are. This is Journey, the same group that sings "Don't Stop Believing." The Eagles song, "Best of My Love" always made me sad. Yes, I know this sounds like a woman singing, but the Bee Gees are three brothers. After an hour, Lani was tired of music history lessons and popped the Coldplay CD back in.
We kept driving and hoped to see another McDonalds. Unfortunately after US-63 crosses
I-94, there’s not another obvious McDonalds until 80 miles later in Rochester. I started mentally kicking myself. I should have brought a Wisconsin map. Or an atlas. Or a child who knew how to navigate. In self-defense, Lani reminded me that she’s the youngest and had never had to navigate before. She usually sleeps or reads on road trips.
I-94, there’s not another obvious McDonalds until 80 miles later in Rochester. I started mentally kicking myself. I should have brought a Wisconsin map. Or an atlas. Or a child who knew how to navigate. In self-defense, Lani reminded me that she’s the youngest and had never had to navigate before. She usually sleeps or reads on road trips.
A
car search found maps of Michigan
(useless for this trip) and Minnesota which was useful for the 80 miles we were in Minnesota. We could either find a McDonalds in busy Rochester, or call Keith who would use that tone to give
directions.
Thankfully
a third option presented itself. Dayton called and gave us directions from Rochester. I promptly somehow turned east on I-90 instead of
west.
After
turning round five miles later, we were on the way again. We exited I-90 at Dexter,
Minnesota, and drove south through Iowa corn and soybean fields and an occasional small town.
I turned left when I should have turned right. We missed turns and got turned
around. So much for being easy to find places in Iowa.
Dayton called at 6:22 to check our progress and said we still
had an hour and a half. What? Nothing sucks the fun out of a road trip more than knowing short of a life
flight helicopter or a Star Trek Transporter, we had no chance of arriving on time. We bought a small bag
of Doritos at the nearest convenience store to console ourselves.
While
buying Doritos, I saw a wonderful, easy to understand, compact, laminated Iowa map but balked at the eight dollar price tag. I refused to spend that much when I had three Iowa maps at home.
Lani entertained herself that last stretch with a few "This is taking forever!" selfies.
I
normally drive the speed limit or a few miles over, but under the circumstances,
drove as fast as I safely could and hoped if pulled over, the officer would
have pity on my plight and not issue a ticket. Thankfully we didn’t see any
policemen.
We
finally arrived in Aplington and drove through town hoping to see the church somewhere. We didn't. Had to swallow my
pride again and call Dayton. He
directed us to turn just past the bank and Stinky’s Bar and Grill (love that name)
and head north a few miles.
Just
then, I heard the distinctive clanging of a railroad crossing. Ironic. To
be so close and have to spend five minutes watching a LONG westbound train take
its sweet time going by.
We
found the church and debated how to handle our late arrival. I figured it is
what it is. Everyone already knows I’m late and obviously has issues.
Lani
complained to her sympathetic sisters, “Mom kept stopping to use the bathroom.”
I
couldn’t believe my ears. I said, “Lani, you hypocrite. You went
every time I did.”
We
had a great time and Dayton’s family made sure I knew how to get to La Crosse the next day. I had a map, written directions, Google
directions on the iPad, and a screenshot. Happy to report, I made it
without any glitches.
Other
than arriving 15 minutes late and making my son Andrew late for work. But as we
all know, it could have been worse.
I’m
asking for an 8 x 10 travel atlas for my birthday next month.
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